[PDF] When Children Grieve eBook

Author : John W. James
Publisher : Harper Collins
Page : 266 pages
File Size : 20,73 MB
Release : 2010-06-22
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 0062015486

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"Once in a generation, a book comes along that alters the way society views a topic. When Children Grieve is an essential primer for parents and others who interact with children on a regular basis." — Bernard McGrane, Ph.D., Professor of Sociology, Chapman University and U.C. Irvine The first—and definitive—guide to helping children really deal with loss from the authors of the The Grief Recovery Handbook Following deaths, divorces, pet loss, or the confusion of major relocation, many adults tell their children “don’t feel bad.” In fact, say the authors of the bestselling The Grief Recovery Handbook, feeling bad or sad is precisely the appropriate emotion attached to sad events. Encouraging a child to bypass grief without completion can cause unseen long-term damage. When Children Grieve helps parents break through the misinformation that surrounds the topic of grief. It pinpoints the six major myths that hamper children in adapting to life’s inevitable losses. Practical and compassionate, it guides parents in creating emotional safety and spells out specific actions to help children move forward successfully.

Author : John W. James
Publisher :
Page : 268 pages
File Size : 18,12 MB
Release : 2001-05-01
Category : Social Science
ISBN : 9780756757816

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To watch a child grieve & not know what to do is one of the most difficult experiences for parents, teachers, & caregivers. This book offers guidelines for helping children develop a lifelong, healthy response to loss. This cutting-edge volume will help free children from the false idea that they shouldn't feel badÓ & will empower them with positive, effective methods of dealing with loss. There are many life experiences that can produce feelings of grief in a child, everything from the death of a relative or a divorce, to more everyday experiences such as moving to a new neighborhood, or losing a pet. Whatever the reason or the degree of severity, if a child you love is grieving, this book can help.

Author : Joey O’Connor
Publisher : Revell
Page : 256 pages
File Size : 21,18 MB
Release : 2004-11
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 0800759761

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A sensitive, compassionate book that helps parents teach their children the truth about death and dying.

Author : Alan D. Wolfelt
Publisher : Companion Press
Page : 162 pages
File Size : 24,69 MB
Release : 2012-06-01
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 1617221589

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Renowned author and educator Alan Wolfelt redefines the role of the grief counselor in this guide for caregivers to grieving children. Providing a viable alternative to the limitations of the medical establishment’s model for companioning the bereaved, Wolfelt encourages counselors and other caregivers to aspire to a more compassionate philosophy in which the child is the expert of his or her grief—not the counselor or caregiver. The approach outlined in the book argues against treating grief as an illness to be diagnosed and treated but rather for acknowledging it as an event that forever changes a child's worldview. By promoting careful listening and observation, this guide shows caregivers, family members, teachers, and others how to support grieving children and help them grow into healthy adults.

Author : J. William Worden
Publisher : Guilford Press
Page : 225 pages
File Size : 15,12 MB
Release : 1996-10-18
Category : Psychology
ISBN : 9781572301481

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Drawing upon extensive interviews and assessments of school-age children who have lost a parent to death, this book offers a richly textured portrait of the mourning process in children. The volume presents major findings from the Child Bereavement Study and places them in the context of previous research, shedding new light on both the wide range of normal variation in children's experience of grief and the factors that put bereaved children at risk. The book also compares parentally bereaved children with those who have suffered loss of a sibling to death, or of a parent through divorce, exploring similarities and differences in these experiences of loss. A concluding section explores the clinical implications of the findings and includes a review of intervention models and activities, as well as a screening instrument designed to help identify high-risk bereaved children.

Author : James P. Emswiler
Publisher : Bantam
Page : 304 pages
File Size : 24,75 MB
Release : 2009-07-22
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 0307420736

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Give your child the help and support needed to cope with grief and loss. Guiding Your Child Through Grief, by the founders of the New England Center for Loss & Transition and The Cove, a highly praised program for grieving children, takes away the uncertainty and helpless feelings we commonly feel as we reach out to children who mourn. This caring and compassionate guide offers expert advice during difficult days to help a child grieve the death of a parent or sibling. Based on their experience as counselors--and as parents of grieving children--the authors help readers to understand: The many ways children grieve, often in secret Changes in family dynamics after death--and straightforward, effective ways to ease the transition Ways to communicate with children about death and grief How to cope with the intense sorrow triggered by holidays The signs grief has turned to depression--and where to find help And more insights, information, and advice that can help a child heal

Author : Julia Wilcox Rathkey
Publisher : Harmony
Page : 210 pages
File Size : 13,19 MB
Release : 2010-03-24
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 0307549135

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GIVE YOUR CHILDREN WHAT THEY NEED MOST When Julia Wilcox Rathkey lost her husband, her three children lost their father. Within hours, it became sharply clear that each child--a twelve-year-old daughter and twin ten-year-old sons--would grieve the loss in a radically different way. While one harbored anger, another experienced denial, and the third was gripped with fear. Rathkey quickly determined that each youngster would require a different response from the adults in their lives, particularly from her. But despite the array of emotions and reactions, Rathkey arrived at four essentials that each child would need: routine, love, honesty, and security. These four concepts, however simple, are crucial for those who want to successfully guide their children through one of the most difficult passages they may face in life: the loss of a loved one. What Children Need When They Grieve explores: • The scope of a child's reactions to death, including grief and fear • Advice on how to talk with your child, and how to recognize their need for privacy • What other adults can do to help, and what they should refrain from doing • Concise and to-the-point advice about your child's daily routine, at home and at school Written with compassion and the knowledge that comes from the experience of loss, designed not to overwhelm with too much information, and with an introduction by an expert in childhood bereavement, What Children Need When They Grieve offers strategies, support, and comfort for grieving families.

Author : Kenneth J. Doka
Publisher : Taylor & Francis
Page : 207 pages
File Size : 31,5 MB
Release : 2014-01-21
Category : Psychology
ISBN : 1317756797

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Based on the Hospice Foundation of America's second annual teleconference, this book explores three basic themes in children's grief. Firstly, it maintains that children are always developing; therefore their understanding of death and their reactions to illness and loss are also multifaceted and constantly undergoing change. Secondly, children grieve in ways that are both different from and similar to adults. While they may need different therapeutic approaches from their elders, each loss is different and the grief experience will be affected by many of the same factors that affect adults. Thirdly, it holds that they need significant support as they grieve.; Talking to children about loss and and illness is too important to wait until a crisis; rather, it is essential to provide opportunities to discuss loss in times that are not so Emotionally Laden. This Book Aims To Demonstrate That Open Communication between parents and children will lead to skills and understanding that are essential to the child for coping with loss and reaffirming that death is part of the process of living.

Author : Phyllis R. Silverman
Publisher : Oxford University Press, USA
Page : 271 pages
File Size : 40,85 MB
Release : 2009
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 0195328841

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When children lose someone they love, life is never the same. In this sympathetic book, the authors advocate an open, honest approach, suggesting that our instinctive desire to "protect" children from the reality of death may be more harmful than helpful.

Author : John W. James
Publisher : Harper Collins
Page : 196 pages
File Size : 41,51 MB
Release : 1998-06-23
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 0060952733

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The authors share their own stories of loss and, based on their work at the Grief Recovery Institute, provide a set of guidelines for help.