[PDF] Bdsm Basics For Submissives eBook

Author : Michelle Fegatofi
Publisher : Lulu.com
Page : 54 pages
File Size : 25,4 MB
Release : 2014-09-24
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 1312348305

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Over the years, I have found a lot of helpless and sometimes clueless submissives that were mentally and emotionally abused by dominants. They each felt like they deserved anything they got and never even questioned the dominants about their behavior. One of the hardest things to learn as a new submissive in the world of BDSM is how to navigate and deal with the whirlwind of mental and emotional stress that can come from being in a D/s or M/s relationship. Many people believe they are not allowed to feel any bad feelings, think bad or wrong thoughts, and always have to be a happy submissive. As humans, we all have to deal with negative feelings and thoughts from time to time, even though we may be submissives. This guide is a tool that will help you understand, analyze, and deal with different types of emotions and mental stresses associated with being a submissive.

Author : Michelle Fegatofi
Publisher : Lulu.com
Page : 103 pages
File Size : 28,54 MB
Release : 2013-03-14
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 1300837101

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You have been drawn to the world of BDSM, but searching for one book to give you an overview of both Dominance and Submission. This book provides you with descriptions of all roles, different BDSM relationships, commonly used terms, guidelines for roles and responsibilities, and much more. After reading this book, you should have a well rounded foundation to start your journey further into the ever changing world that is known as BDSM.

Author : Michelle Fegatofi
Publisher :
Page : 0 pages
File Size : 16,96 MB
Release : 2014-12-11
Category :
ISBN : 9781312213845

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This is a 2014 revised and expanded version of Unveiled - The Secret Submissive Within. The book title has been renamed to better reflect the subject matter. This book is ordered in a way to help you understand the basics of BDSM, as well as to gain a base knowledge of what you might encounter as a submissive in the Lifestyle. It covers a range of topics such as Online and real life scenarios, Dealing with different emotions as a sub, Possible training techniques, Punishments and How to find, get to know, and spot fake Dominants. It's packed with information every submissive should know! There is a very in depth Limits worksheet that can help you figure out and begin to understand your own soft and hard limits. The main point to remember while exploring the Lifestyle and this book is to keep an open mind and learn all you can of the possibilities that a BDSM relationship can bring.

Author : Matthew Larocco
Publisher : Enlightened Publishing
Page : 74 pages
File Size : 38,34 MB
Release : 2016-05-03
Category : Self-Help
ISBN :

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What does it really mean to be a submissive, or sub? Much of what we see in BDSM practice, especially in the mainstream, focuses on how to become dominant and act like the ideal Dom or Master, or "Top." However, a lot of newcomers are confused as to how this works. They vaguely understand that the submissive or sub or slave is supposed to obey. But they don’t understand the emotional dynamics, or how to act like the ideal sub, or even how to enjoy the experience. That’s what this book is going to teach you: How to be a better sub, and have a happy & healthy BDSM lifestyle. Here are just some of the things you will discover in volume 1 of "Submissive's Guide To BDSM": - Why you want to experience punishment... - The science of pain & pleasure... - Type of Doms to beware of... - How to pick the right Dom just for you... - How to protect yourself from wannabe Doms and predators... - The right way to explore taboo fantasies in BDSM... - Type of limits and when & how to use them... - How to communicate with your Dom... - Common mistakes new subs make... - How to "train" your Master... - How to "fire" your Dom if it's not working out... - And much more...

Author : Michelle Fegatofi
Publisher : Lulu.com
Page : 187 pages
File Size : 41,47 MB
Release : 2013-10-19
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 1304281787

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This is an in-depth, comprehensive guide for submissives new to the lifestyle and for those just wanting to broadentheir knowledge more. It starts with 'what a submissive is', moves to 'common terms in BDSM', 'contracts', continues on to 'possible punishments', 'what to look for in a Dominant', and ends with a very thorough 'Limits Worksheet' in the back. There are many more topics covered, but you will have to read further to discover them.

Author : Sdfsdf Sdf
Publisher :
Page : 106 pages
File Size : 30,11 MB
Release : 2019-05-18
Category :
ISBN : 9781097478491

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Do you want to stay in the same vanilla sex routine forever? Or are you ready to bring more pleasure and excitement to your sex life starting today? What do you think when you hear "BDSM?" I'll tell you what most people think. Most people think whips, chains, pain, and crying. They think only "evil" or "mentally ill" people enjoy these types of things. They think of the most corrupt things they can because of the way that mainstream media misrepresents BDSM. BDSM is has become more popular than ever in recent years. Only a few decades ago only 10-15% of surveyed people reported engaging in BDSM. Since then that number has increased by nearly 90%. Even though BDSM is gaining popularity many people still feel guilty for having BDSM related fantasies. I'm here to tell you there is abosultely no reason to feel guilty. BDSM is much broader than it seems and when done correctly, is completely safe and healthy. If given the chance, BDSM can be the most sincere display of love and affection between you and your partner. Whether you are somewhat familiar with BDSM or not familiar at all, don't miss out on what could be a life-changing experience because of misconceptions and miseducation. Vanilla to Kinky will help you discover: What aspects of BDSM are best for you How to partake in BDSM the right way How to find your role How to create amazingly intense scenes How to find the dynamic you love the most How toys can enhance your BDSM experience The keys to being a good Dominant The keys to being a good submissive Helpful tips to get you started on your journey BDSM is for anybody. It does not discriminate against any ages, genders, or body type. Yes, even an average joe like you can partake in safe and healthy BDSM. BDSM is a journey that can be truly rewarding every time but will take effort, patience, and an self-examination. If you want to begin your journey then this is where you start. Scroll up and click the "Add to Cart" to get started today.

Author : Donna Prince
Publisher :
Page : 194 pages
File Size : 35,45 MB
Release : 2020-04-16
Category :
ISBN :

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You or your partner are fascinated by BDSM, but don't know how and where to start? Everything you need to know, you will find it in this book. Most of what people think about BDSM, is wrong. In reality BDSM is not degrading women or men and you will also understand that it's not as obscure as you think. And also the concept of "pain" we are talking about is not what people think. You will also understand that having the role of the Dom is not just about having pleasure, on the contrary, the Dom has the role of giving pleasure and discipline to the submissive. He must have pleasure in giving pleasure and not simply receiving what he wants. This book is intended for both Dominant and Submissive training. It's also perfect for those who haven't experience in this world. This is a taste of what you will find in this book: What is BDSM and Why? Introducing BDSM to your Partner What is Domination and Submission 8 Tips on how to get Started in BDSM 7 Mistakes New Submissives Make 10 must-have BDSM Toys for Beginners Bondage play Punishments Examples Types of Consents: SSC vs RACK Dominance Techniques Role-Play types SAFE WORDS: how to Choose them and why After reading this book you will have made your sex life richer and your partner will beg you for more. So... Scroll up, click the buy now button and get your copy of "Guide to BDSM" ! Check also the others "Sex Life Tips" books: 1 - Art of Seduction: Boost your Sexual Intelligence Learning How to Flirt with Techniques of Verbal Communication, Signal and Understand a Sex Desire for Woman and Man 2 - DIRTY TALK LANGUAGE: How to Learn with Examples of Phrases of Lust to Have a Great Sex with Your Man or Woman, Make It Wilder and Drive Your Partner Crazy 3 - Sex Games for Couples: Ways to Spice up your Relationship with Hot Quiz, Games and Sexy Conversation 4 - Guide to BDSM: to Have a Healthy and Mindful Dom / Sub Relationship, with Techniques of Dominance and How to be a Good Submissive for your Master

Author : Kate Kinsey
Publisher : Createspace Independent Publishing Platform
Page : 0 pages
File Size : 18,16 MB
Release : 2014-09-06
Category :
ISBN : 9781501093609

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Beyond any shades of grey, there's an entire kinky world of BDSM, full of real life dominants and submissives enjoying an intimacy and satisfaction in their relationships that vanilla folk only dream of. Whether you want to explore your own submissive fantasies, or you're just curious about what BDSM is really like, this book will answer all your questions, plus some you didn't know you had. Erotic author Kate Kinsey ("Red," and "The Totally Uncensored Kinky Adventures of Chloe St. Claire, Sex Slave") brings over a decade of experience as a submissive and kinky educator to this practical step-by-step guide to being a healthy and happy submissive.Topics covered include: the differences between dominants and masters, submissives and slaves, and tops and bottoms; the different dominant styles; the truth about "training" to be a submissive; how to find like-minded folks in your area; how to negotiate scenes and relationships; what to expect at your first dungeon party; why some people actually enjoy pain; and the warning signs to look out for when talking to potential partners."Kinsey has written a no-nonsense guide that thoroughly explains the various kinks and fetishes that come under the umbrella of BDSM. Most importantly, she emphasizes the importance of protecting yourself along the way with knowledge, friends and self-awareness.""This is not fiction, but reality. Kate Kinsey has the experience to tell it like it is, not the way some vanilla writer imagines it to be."

Author : Cheshirecat _MMH
Publisher :
Page : 344 pages
File Size : 36,65 MB
Release : 2017-02-04
Category :
ISBN : 9781520524153

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A complete guide to making BDSM work. This book covers a staggering array of topics in a far greater depth than seen in previous works on BDSM. Along with providing an introduction for the novice who is seeking to discover how to enter into the world of BDSM, it provides thoughtful articles from a diverse group of writers considering everything from talking dirty, electric play, how pain works, through to detailed analysis of punishment/funishment play. This book is the one stop guide for submissives and would be submissives to explore their kinky identity.

Author : Elizabeth Cramer
Publisher : Living Plus Healthy Publishing
Page : 61 pages
File Size : 42,38 MB
Release : 2015-03-05
Category : Self-Help
ISBN :

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Nothing will prepare you for a life of submission in the same way as your formal training. Submissive training isn’t just a “good idea” when it comes to creating a BDSM relationship. It is essential. "Submissive Training: 23 Things You Must Know About How To Be A Submissive" is designed to help you know what to expect when you go through training with a new Dom. Every couple is unique and every Dom may have different ways of teaching you the systems of service he prefers. However, these are the basics all trained subs and slaves learn and employ in daily life. Rushing into a relationship or service contract with a Dom without training puts the future of your time together at risk. All of the arguments, resistance, misunderstandings and hurt feelings that go with a new submissive’s experiences can be eradicated by a period designated for learning, listening, trial and error. Even if you have been with a previous Dom you will need to go through an abbreviated training time to ensure your patterns and understandings match one another. Training is a way to “get in the same rhythm” and find the perfect groove. If you are a Dom, this guide is the perfect gift to give to your new sub. If you are a sub, this guide will teach you how to go through your submissive training. As you go through these things on the journey to become the woman you were made to be, you will be tested but you will also be proud, joyful and, perhaps for the first time in your life, you will be at peace.